The clip shows the pastor talking to an audience about attracting a man. She began by telling women to carry themselves with a friendly demeanor, to go out often, and mainly to wear wigs when they do. She posited that natural hair doesn’t attract men.
“The Bible says that will have friends must first show himself friendly. You’re squeezing your face, ‘nobody is calling me,’ but this is how your face is,” she said.
She continued, “Friday night, you’re at home. Monday, you’re at home, Tuesday, you’re at home. Instead of you to be smiling, be shining your teeth anywhere you are. When your friends are hanging out, say, ‘I’m coming.’ When your colleagues are going to one say, ‘Maybe that’s where my husband will be. Let me dress up and join them.’ Show yourself friendly, and then you will have friends.
“All of you will be carrying natural hair about. Who does natural hair help? OK. Better wear your wig and be doing like this…” The pastor dramatically flipped her wig in the video.
She explained, “And be flipping it. Go and spend that money on hair. Draw your brows, buy lip gloss, and look good. Natural hair is not selling market. When you marry you off your wig because you have entered, there’s nothing they can do about it. But before you enter, don’t be caught unfresh. Never. Package yourself well.”
She quickly fired off a speech about telling women to even go to their friend’s weddings dressed to the nines with “snatched” waists and Aso Ebi Nigerian outfits.
The viral video has made its rounds on Twitter/X and brought backlash from many women were offended by her remarks about natural hair.
This is the problem with not teaching from the Bible and allowing your own mind to talk.— Beautiful (@Beautiranye) October 30, 2023
She is sooo wrong, and I feel embarrassed listening to her 😞— Leila hearts 🇹🇿 (@leila_hearts) October 30, 2023
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Source: Black Enterprise